Thursday, January 17, 2008

Cheryl from Eureka, MO

We moved to England 5 years ago and have since moved back. But within that time, my 2 grandmothers passed over. One did so while we were visiting the USA at Christmas time, she had already been taken to the hospital and was unaware I was there. The other passed the following year while we were visiting once again. I miss them dearly and I wanted to see if you could contact them to see if they had any messages for me or any other loved ones I know. My great Aunt also passed but she did so when I was back in the UK. These women were a big part of our family and are truly missed. I feel I let them down in some way by not being near when they were alive. Can you help?

Thanks again and Thanks if you can help!!

Cheryl
Eureka, MO



Dear Cheryl

I am not a medium. I can not talk to ghosts that have crossed over. You can get your answers however yourself.

The next time you dream of one of them you can have a conversation with them. Get a herb called mugwort. Make a little sachet out of it , and place it between your pillow and pillow case. In about three weeks you will remember your dreams. (Do not let children or animals around mugwort).

I do not think the ladies have held it against you for living out of the country before or when they died.

Good dreaming.

Mary Ann

Rachel from Peoria, IL

Rachel (age 31)
Peoria, IL

Hi Mary Ann,

My mother passed away July 21, 2000. When mom died, she smiled after her last breath. That was comforting. We don't know who she saw, but we hope is a great feeling of love she felt. I am her youngest daughter. She passed when I was 24.
We think we saw signs of her before her funeral. Her dog, Toby, barked at a shadow the day we were choosing her clothes for the funeral. When I went back to work (rather soon), I saw my mother's face wake me up and she said my name plain as day. One face was one that I remember from a picture, like she was 35 years old. The other was of my mom when she was healtier but older. She only woke me twice, once as my young mother, the other as the healthier older mom.

About a month ago, I was lost in the internet. Just surfing. And I felt something or someone poke me on my lower right side of my back. A tattoo to honor my mother is there. She saw it before she passed. Do you think she was saying hi? This was a serious poke right on the back. So, I said: Hi, mom. I love you.

Just curious!

Bless you for your gifts,

Rachel



Dear Rachel,

How lucky that you are to have so many recognized visits from your mom. So many people would love to have just one of these signs!

Her smile when she died shows me that she was very happy to see someone. Your mom would not have crossed over till after the final ceremony at the cemetery. It is very possible that you saw her before. Seeing your mom younger and healthy is another sign she is at peace.

Of course she was saying Hi, moms always come and visit, and they really do not miss too much. As long as you talk out loud she will hear you!

Your mom sounds like she is a real treasure!

Mary Ann

Becky- First Love

I have had this question for years and had no where to turn. My first love and husband was always very attached to me spiritually. When I remarried, the new husband didn't want me to have any connection to him, and I regrettably agreed. The first husband died as a result of a motorcycle accident and I never got to say goodbye. The turd I remarried, is now out of the picture and long gone without ever saying goodbye. I always wanted to say I'm sorry to the first, that I'm sorry I checked out because of the x-husband's jealousy and stupidity. I talk to him all the time but I don't know that he hears. Can you help me.

Thanks so much, Becky M dob 6/9/50



Hi Becky

I am sorry for your loss, but when you sense your dead ex-husband around, just talk to him out loud and he will be able to hear you. He can not read your mind, that is why you have to speak out loud.

Or you can speak to him the next time that you have a dream of him. People do not realize when you dream of someone you can have a great conversation.

Hope this helps.

Mary Ann

Susan from Lynn, MA

Hi Mary Ann,

I'm very confused and somewhat frightened. For the past 2 weeks, i have had messages on my phone 3 times that baffle me. It sounds like when the television is off channel and snowy, but i can hear a man's monotone voice speaking behind the noises. I can't make out what the man is saying. At first i thought it was some kind of recording that wasnt working properly, but i happened again yesterday and this morning. My caller ID says " Unknown name and Unknown number ". It has happened each time when i am not at home at different times of the day.

I have lost several family members over the past few years. My daughter has been going through a lot of serious issues lately. I'm wondering if all of this might have something to do with all of the pain and anguish we've been experiencing over the last few months.

I appretiate and value your opinion.

Sincerely,
Susan
Lynn, Mass 01905




Hello Susan

It sounds like the earthbound ghost in your house really wants to get your attention.

There is no way I can tell if it is a family member or not, but I doubt it. A family member would not want to cause problems for your daughter and you.

Here are two suggestions that should help.

First- Have the house blessed by an ordained priest or minister. DO NOT get holy water and sprinkle it about yourself. This will not help.

Second- Get a smudge stick. This is what Native Americans used to cleanse their living areas. You should be able to find smudge sticks at health food stores, some book stores, or any good metaphysical shop. Follow the instructions in the package or ask where you buy it how to use it.

It will help calm the house down.

Thanks Mary Ann

Jill- Pennies and butterflies

Could you tell me which family member send the pennies and which sends the butterflies?

Thanks- Jill



Hi Jill

No, I am sorry, I can not. You may be able to figure it out yourself.

On days when you find pennies who are you thinking about? Or who did you dream about the night before? Did someone save pennies?

Same thing with the butterflies. Who liked the outdoors? Who had butterfly dish towels? When you were visiting at the cemetery, or at a funeral during a burial did you see butterflies?

Do a little investigating.

You will figure it out.

Mary Ann

Diana from North Dakota

Dear Mary Ann,

My sister and I love the Ghost Whisperer and we are both looking forward to the new series of shows this fall.
I have a few questions I would like answered.

First, My parents are both deceased and were divorced and my Mom was the one who didn't want anything to do with my Dad.
My Mother died several years before my Dad. They both died of cancer, but, the day before my Dad died, my sister showed him a picture of Mom and Dad when they were married and our Dad had such a look of happiness on his face, the next day he passed away. We knew the end was near, but, we didn't think it would be the next day. Did my parents reunite in heaven?

My husband had an uncle who we were very close to, he lived far away, but, every year he came out to visit us, We live on a farm and he loved the farm as he was born on the same farm. When he passed away, he wanted his ashes spread on the farm, his daughter granted his wishes. The day we spread his ashes, we had thrown the ashes into the wind and only my ashes that I was spreading came back to me, it was very odd as we were throwing them into the wind. do you suppose that was our Uncle telling us how pleased he was that his wishes had been granted?

Last fall, we had a neighbor and friend help round up cattle on horseback on our farm, he had helped us many times before, Curtis was a born cowboy and was riding his own horse. Well to make a long story short, he had a horse accident and hit his head and had extensive brain damage, He was on life support for 5 days and his family had decided to take him off. He died 5 days after the accident, he was 26.
Did his soul leave his body that day in the pasture or in the hospital? He was a very Christian young man and we know where he is now.

Thank you for your help.
Diana
ND



Dear Diana,

Thank you for watching Ghost Whisperer, in my opinion it is both entertaining and informative.

Your parents did reunite, and because he was smiling when he saw her picture I bet that she was there in spirit to help your dad to die and then to crossover.

All ghosts are pleased when their wishes are followed and they usually give some sort of acknowledgement. Your uncle must have been ecstatic!

How tragic that Curtis was so young, but it sounds like he died loving what he was doing. His spirit would have left his body the day he had no brain activity, which would have been the day of the accident.

Thanks and please keep watching Ghost Whisperer.

Mary Ann